Jewish Leadership as Role Models
By Sherwin Pomerantz
I am sitting here reading the text of an
open letter to the Board of Governors of Hebrew Union College from Rabbi Ellen
Lippmann and I can feel my blood pressure rising.
Rabbi Lippmann urges the College to
reconsider its requirement that all prospective rabbinical students sign an
agreement that “any student engaged, married, or partnered/committed to a
person who is not Jewish by birth or conversion will not be admitted or
ordained.” And her logic, of course, is
the need for the Reform movement to be inclusive in all of its activities.
But she and others like her who have
posited similar arguments over the last few months miss the point. An individual Jew can and often does choose
to live his/her life in the manner which has the most meaning to him or
her. Others may criticize the choices
that are so made, but at the end of the day these are, indeed, individual
choices and, like them or not, they need to be respected.
On the other hand, when it comes to
people who elect to place themselves in a position of leadership within the
Jewish community, their values need to reflect the highest principles of Jewish
tradition concomitant with the principles of the organizations they lead. American Jewry has been moving down this
slippery slope for some time and the natural, I would say almost expected,
result is that now there are those who even want to condone intermarriage by
rabbis. Can such people be so blind as not
to be able to see the contradiction in terms when pursuing that goal?
For example, 40 years ago I was critical
of the Jewish Theological Seminary of America
when they elected someone to head the Board of Overseers who was married
to a non-Jew. Sadly the powers that be at
the time did not see any connection between personal life and community
leadership.
When I still lived in Chicago I was once
standing in a movie queue well after the end of the Sabbath when I saw three
Conservative Rabbis and their wives leave the theater from the earlier show,
which, of course, began before Shabbat ended.
When I raised this with the then president of the Rabbinical Assembly,
the umbrella organization of Conservative Rabbis in America, I was told “Sherwin,
you worry about the wrong things.”
The American Jewish community, even at
that time, was already moving to a point where no demands on observance were
made of people who chose to place themselves in the position of Jewish
community leaders. I recall once when I
spoke at a south side Conservative congregation in Chicago and was introduced
as the Regional President of the United Synagogue of America to which the MC
added, “and he is also shomer Shabbat.”
Really? Shouldn’t that have been
an expectation of any lay leader in a movement that valued the observance of Shabbat? But clearly it was not.
And now we come to the absurd position in
American Jewish life where Reform Rabbis (for the moment as who knows which
other movements will be pressured next on this topic) argue for giving the title
of Rabbi even to someone who is married to a non-Jew.
Rabbi Lippmann, of course, knows whereof
she speaks. She herself, the Rabbi of
Congregation Kolot Chayeinu in Brooklyn is married to a non-Jewish woman who
calls herself a “permanently lapsed Irish-Catholic.” And here is the kicker, when Rabbi Lippmann
writes: “A rabbi is a role model, and
there are many kinds of role models.
Intermarriage is a fact of American Jewish life. We can do a better job of connecting
intermarried Jews to synagogues, rabbis and Jewish life. One way is to knowingly ordain intermarried
rabbis.”
So there you have it. Social acceptability of domestic situations
now dictates religious law. I guess the
next step is that if 10% of a congregation is made up of convicted felons then
we should also ordain convicted felons as Rabbis so that such people will feel “included.” The ultimate end of this convoluted reasoning
is, of course, the demise of Judaism as a value-based torah-influenced faith.
But for the Reform movement in America, the genie may already be out of the
bottle with the cork nowhere to be found.
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